吹牛影響職業(yè)生涯
There's nothing wrong with being confident in your abilities, but there's a very fine line between being sure of yourself and being full of it. We will take a look at three key indicators that your boastful ways are, indeed, preventing you from getting where you want to be in your career.
對自己能力表示自信再正常不過，但是不小心玩過線就會變成自滿。我們來看看可能阻礙你發(fā)展，過分自吹自擂的三項(xiàng)指標(biāo)。
1. You're the one doing all the talking.
只有你獨(dú)自喋喋不休
If you find that you're usually the one doing all the talking in your conversations, either you are talking to a lot of shy introverts, or it's time to zip the lip, because you're becoming an over-sharing braggart. People don't want to listen to you go on and on about yourself. Honestly, they probably couldn't care less about all the details of your life.
如果發(fā)現(xiàn)在談話中一直是自己在講話，如果對方不是過分內(nèi)向的人，那就該適時(shí)閉嘴了。因?yàn)槟阏缪菡哌^分自吹自擂的角色。大家都不喜歡一直不停談?wù)撟约旱娜�。事�?shí)上，他們根本不想聽你那么多生活細(xì)節(jié)。
2. You constantly interrupt people to share your thoughts.
2.為了表達(dá)自己想法，不停打斷別人講話
When people finally get the chance to say something, you are constantly interrupting them to point something out or give your two cents. You probably don't realize you're being rude by interrupting others while they talk, because, to you, you're simply trying to lend your thoughts or relate to the other person.
當(dāng)別人終于有了發(fā)言機(jī)會，你卻不停打斷他們，發(fā)表自己的觀點(diǎn)。也許你自己意識不到別人說話時(shí)打斷他們是很粗魯?shù)男袨�，僅僅覺得自己是向他人分享自己的觀點(diǎn)。
3. People make excuses to leave your conversation.
3.大家借口其他事情避免跟你繼續(xù)談話
If people seem to mysteriously vanish from conversations with you, then it's time to take a hint and zip the lip. These people aren't dropping like flies because they just so happen to need (yet another) drink or cup of coffee, they're leaving because they don't want to waste another second of their lives listening to you ramble on about yourself.
如果與你談話中，其他人經(jīng)常借口走人，這時(shí)候就該接受暗示閉嘴了。這些人并不是突然離開，而總是在你夸夸其談的'時(shí)候需要去喝杯飲料或咖啡。他們離開時(shí)因?yàn)椴幌氚炎约荷速M(fèi)在聽你滿嘴跑火車上。
Don't let your chatterbox ways interfere with your career success, because no one like a self-centered co-worker, boss, or professional. Listen to the wise words of John Steinbeck, who once said, "Perhaps the less we have, the more we are required to brag."
不要讓自己的喋喋不休影響職業(yè)生涯，因?yàn)闆]人喜歡與以自我為中心的同事、老板或?qū)＜夜彩隆Ｎ覀儜?yīng)該聽取John Steinbeck這句良言：“喜歡吹噓的人猶如一面大鼓，響聲大腹中空。”
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